r/Amioverreacting My Crazy Fiancé Broke My Arm!

28 thoughts on “r/Amioverreacting My Crazy Fiancé Broke My Arm!”

• How tf is bro having his brother ober so often but only blames her? If it really was her and there's no other people coming to their home, completely fine. But that wasn't the case yet it's all he saw. Think first, mad later. Even though it's hard.

• Baths: Yeah, if I have children I wouldn't have want a predator bathing with them no matter the gender. Wouldn't it make sense bath with your own children. Well, if I have children I wouldn't bath with them because I feel uncomfortable taking baths because when parents stop taking baths and showers with their children? If you are still bathing with them and it's just a innocent bath at some point your children needs the learn how to take a bath by their self. I wouldn't have a problem with parents taking baths with their children because every family is different is strange as long nothing is devious and this something you do with your children, but doing it with someone else's children feels predatory, like no normal person would do like what the fuck.

  Edit: I agree with Rslash if the role was reverse we would see a man behind bars.

• Dude from first needs anger management and therapy.

• Yeah, first one is crazy… THAT man has some serious anger issues… I have anger issues but I have learned to control it and not let it control me.. Do I still scream sometimes sure, BUT I have never physically hurt someone .. . and when I do scream it's after I have calmly explained that I am getting angry and people keep picking at me…

• Second story
  I don't agree with the "if you change the gender" take.
  I mean in locker rooms female of all ages see each other naked.

  My sister was a delicate and sensitive child and mother always helped her a lot more than me. Despite her being two years older than me.
  At the municipal swimming pool , when we were finishing up in the shower mother would be eager get home and rush us. Sis became overwhelmed every time and mother helped her with her hair, drying her back and so on. Then snap at me for falling behind.
  Some other woman presents would in most cases step in and help me.
  So no, I think OP might be misreading the situations because of her trauma.
  About the son seeing gf. It's possible he barged into the bedroom without knocking. Five years old kids are known for following the rules to the letter.

• There is a MASSIVE difference between a parent and a STEP parent showering with their child or seeing each other naked

• Abuse is always more likely to escalate after marriage. Feel blessed that the red flags showed themselves before the wedding. Leave. He's love-bombing with the gifts and apologies more abuser behavior. But he didn't have the self control to read the situation other than immediate trust issues and assuming the worst of you. Over a car parked in the driveway. The man needs therapy to address some obvious trauma, resentment and trust issues he has towards women due to what happened with his mom. But if he's willing to put hands on you and literally break your arm, it's time for you to go and find out what a real good man is, because actual good men don't hurt you, on accident or on purpose.

• Leave him, and press charges. Nobody should put their hands on you

• “It doesn’t make sense that you live with your brother in an economy where people can’t afford to live. I’m going to gaslight you by accusing you of gaslighting me. I’m 29 and playing games while saying I don’t.” This girl is insecure and nosy. And clearly doesn’t trust OP, he needs to get rid of her.

• Second story: I remember one time, my best friend (a girl), my mum and I had a bath together. I think I was about 4, so was my friend. We were all naked, and it's not been an issue.
  However, allowing for this being 8 year olds and OPs history of being abused, there's no way to claim she's overreacting. Add that to exposing herself to ops son, and things are going too far.

  Normally, I'd blame the Internet for blowing up naked kids' pictures to make everyone look like a predator, but this is not the same.

• Ngl, the last one is pretty funny and I would definitely appracite the silliness of it. But it woukd get really old really fast if it's something like this where it inconveniences you and she won't break the act to give you the normal sized item back. It's funny that she commits to the bit but it's not funny when you need the normal sized item back and she still commits. If she wants to commit so bad, then she shouldn't switch out items that you would most definitely need in its normal size…like ingredients.

• I gotta be real chat gf in the last story would have found herself back on the market regardless.

• Last story- immediate reaction "change your locks. Change your locks and dont give anyone else the key." Easy way to keep someone doing annoying shit outa the house and if it was the gf who had done it he would have found out fast, even faster when if he had his brother suddenly shows up and tries to casually ask when he changed locks. I hate that kind of prank especially because not only was it taken too far i need the closure to know that the food wasnt actually just wasted because thats so much that was thrown out for a "prank" otherwise which is so much worse to me

• A good man can't place his hands on his woman without instantly losing that title. OP's fiance is a scummy guy who just so happens to do nice things from time to time.

• is the chick japanises cause thats normal there for women and other females to bath to gether or guys ect

• 7:45 forget the gender reversal bullshit fuck this woman

• Silly Rslash , women can't be predators or pedos !

• Story 3: "That's really gas lighty." And she is speaking as a qualified expert and practitioner of the subject. Run, OP.

• Story 2: listen, even if it was without a second reason, it would make me as a kid uncomfortable. Like, I was that kid who had family do that and it was so uncomfortable. I didn’t know why, it was just a feeling. So, still icky whether or not she had any second reasons for doing these things.

• I heard this 1st story on another channel and I believe there was an update that was missed on this on. OP and her fiance talked it out and didn't know. The fiance had asked that next time OP let him know about this and op actually asked the neighbor to stop. The fiance never put his hands on her again and they went to therapy in fear that trust may have been broken. They were happy and still together

• Story 1: Get out girl. If my brother broke his fiancés arm because he was jumping to conclusions, I’d be breaking his arm and telling you to stay away from him. He showed how he handled the unexpected, he shows he will jump to conclusions, protect yourself

• Im not saying what the person in story 2 did is acceptable or not, but i know in many asian countries that bathing together is a normal thing.

• That last one had me in stitches. Shame on OP for missing a seemingly obvious potential culprit though – he needs to apologize to his girl for that.

• Story 4: She cheats, he does all date night work, and she gets super defensive when he finds out she's talking to the guy she cheated with. That relationship was never repaired.

• Hang on. The 8 yr old wants to join the woman in the shower. She doesn't want that to happen, but somehow they end up in the bath together?

• As someone who was burned by a "divorced” person. I will ALWAYS ask to see the certificate!

• Final story.
  As a baker, fuck with my flour and I'm deleting your number

• Last story is just stupid. The girl sounds like she's either in on the joke or insanely stupid. Why is her first reaction to say, "It's really strange how things keep shrinking," rather than wanting to get to the bottom of it? How did they not even consider the brother? I'm assuming he lives there and doesn't sneak into the house when his brother goes out. The fact that she'd make the muffin comment and criticize his weight leaves no doubt in my mind that she knew what was going on and either condoned it or pretended not to notice.

Comments are closed.